Male Chastity Fetish

Male chastity fetish is now gone very main stream. With the onset of all these high profile actors and sports star getting outed for cheating on the wives, girlfriends and in some cases their boyfriends men are getting hit with a wave of male chastity fetish demands. Male chastity has always been a popular form of both control over men and at times

A sexually stimulating experience. At one time male chastity fetish were for sissies and male feminine trainees. The use of cock cages have been used for over a thousand years as the main control for male chastity fetish devices.

Cock cages make men absolutely useless cuckolds.

Now these same devices are be used as punishment for cheating men. Forced with the choice of losing their wives or girlfriends or wearing a cock cage when the boss is not around many are opting for the cages. Once the cock is locked away in these amazing metal cages they are no longer available for sexual gratification either by one owns hand or another woman. There are gay men that not only lock away their BF’s cock but lock into place an anal chastity device which is a plug inserted into the rectum then locked into place with a belt.

Male fetish is not only one of the more interesting sexual pleasures but as it turns out for useful and empowering to women of all ages.

My Male Chastity Fetish

I never thought I would have a fetish, especially one geared around chastity devices, but the world is a very strange place and your life can change in a manner of seconds if you aren’t paying attention. My fetish started when I came across a site called and found that they had a lot of different swimwear options for men. I was intrigued by some of the styles that I had seen and decided that I would purchase a few to see how they fit. My eyes were just beginning to open to something completely new.

It took me a few months of purchasing items from before I got the courage built up to go for one of the male devices. I wasn’t too sure if I was going to be able to wear it for very long, but I wanted to see what all the fuss was about and went ahead and purchased one anyway. I will tell you now that if you aren’t ready to succumb to this level of control, then a device like this will not feel comfortable when you first put it on.

Once my male chastity fetish device arrived in the mail, I was excited to get it on and see what it would feel like. It took me a few minutes to figure out exactly how it should fit, but once I got it on I was fairly surprised at how comfortable it was. That surprise fell right out the door after about thirty minutes of wearing it, though. I felt cramped and stuffed in places that I shouldn’t feel that sensation, and it was a bit odd how it started to feel like my circulation was being cut off.

I was starting to feel that I had made a mistake by buying a male chastity fetish device and wanted nothing more than to take the thing off. Unfortunately, I had forgotten where I placed the key, which turned out to be a good thing, and I was forced to wear the device for a couple more hours while I searched my apartment. I finally found the key laying just under the sofa. Apparently, it had fallen onto the floor when I took the device out of the packaging. Once I found it, I realized that the device was fitting a bit better than I initially thought.

After a couple of hours of wearing my new chastity device, I found it to almost form itself to my body. It was like I was wearing nothing at all and I had full freedom of movement to a certain extent. I also found that it fit well under my pants and that I could walk around comfortably without it looking like I was smuggling peaches in my pants. I was very pleased with this because it meant that I could wear it to work and no one would ever notice what I was wearing down below.

Wearing my male device at work was quite a challenge the first time. I find that when I spend a lot of time sitting behind my desk I tend to get an erection fairly often. With my new device on, getting those erections tended to be extremely uncomfortable. The amount of pressure you end up with out of this device was almost enough to make me want to take it off completely. But I withheld my urges to run to the bathroom and fiddle with the key, and focused instead on the task at hand rather than my growing cock.

I have to say that has some high quality materials going into their chastity device designs. Every time I get an erection, this device does a very good job of holding it back. I have actually tried a few other sites online and their devices will eventually give out and let my cock escape from its bindings. This doesn’t happen with though and any guy that is as serious about chastity as I am will do very well with purchasing their devices through them. It’s always a good thing when you can get quality at a price that you can actually afford to pay.

The one thing I wasn’t too sure about in regards to wearing a device was the aspect of going to the bathroom. I felt that it would be a bit nasty to have to pee through some small hole like I had seen in some of the designs on other websites. Fortunately, for me, designers take things like this into consideration and I have had no issues what so ever with using the restroom with my device on. I’m also glad that I don’t have to take the device off every time I need to go.

One of the best things about wearing a device happens when I go out to the clubs. I like the fact that I can turn someone on and have them willing to head back to my house before I show them what I am wearing. It usually ends up with me going home alone, but it is a lot of fun to get the reactions that I have gotten over the years. It shows people that I am not a slut that will sleep with any stranger but rather someone that takes their sexuality seriously.

If you have a partner that is constantly getting on your case about flirting or cheating on them, wearing a male chastity device for them will definitely stop any arguments from happening. You can give them the key to hold and you won’t ever have to worry about them yelling at you because you came home from work late one night. My past partners loved the fact that I gave them the key and allowed them to take control over everything. I have never been labeled as a cheater by any of them either since I couldn’t get out of my device.

There are going to be times in your life when wearing a male chastity fetish device is going to hamper you. I have found that going through airport security checks while wearing one of these is not a good idea. I actually missed a very important business meeting because I forgot about my device and it had metal in it. The security scanners went off and I was pulled into the back room for a personalized pat down to find out what was going on. Once they saw what I was wearing, I almost got arrested.

It took me a few hours to explain that I was wearing a chastity device and not some kind of sophisticated bomb on my cock. You would think that they would be able to tell just by looking at it but apparently they aren’t all that smart. Once I was able to take it off, which required bolt cutters to get the lock off because my key was in the luggage I checked, they told me that I couldn’t wear it on the plane and would have to leave it with them. I did and ended up having to buy a new one when I got back.

If you are planning on going anywhere on a plane, for whatever reason, then make sure that you either pack your male device in your checked luggage or leave it at home altogether. You don’t want to run the risk of being detained for hours on end and then try to explain to total strangers that you have a chastity fetish and you are not trying to blow anything up. That was one of the most embarrassing and irritating moments in my life and I have no one to blame but myself for it.

Moments like that don’t come around very often, though, so wearing your device on a regular basis shouldn’t be much of a problem for you. You will just have to get used to wearing it and don’t forget that you have it on. After some time, you will completely forget that you are wearing these devices simply because makes them so damn comfortable. It’s almost like wearing glasses; after a while you just forget that you are wearing them. Of course, your glasses won’t cause pain when you get an erection like these devices can do.

Sex is a rather difficult thing to go through if you have lost your key for your men’s chastity device, too, so you need to make sure that you remember where you left it. After wearing my device for almost a month solid, I figured it was time for me to take it off and get lucky. Unfortunately, for me, I had forgotten where I had left my key and ended up being in almost agony the entire time I was with my partner. While it was still exciting, for the most part, it was still a bit upsetting that I couldn’t get the device off.

I felt more than just a little bit of pain because of my men’s chastity device that night, but after a while it went kind of numb and was just something I ended up having to get over and just live with. The funny thing is that I found my key in the bathroom about three hours after that interesting sexual encounter, and ever since then, I have kept it in my wallet so that I would never lose it again. That is something I would highly suggest with all the things I have gone through.

I have been wearing these male chastity fetish devices for a few years now, and have become accustomed to most of the styles that are on One thing I will tell you is that you should start with something that isn’t overly complicated to use. While the one with the addition of cock rings and various items that include your balls into the chastity aspect may look exciting to wear, the first time wearer should chose something a bit more on the mild side to start out with. You can always go back to later on and buy it.

If you decide to go with a male fetish device that is over complicated and you have never worn anything like this before, then you run the risk of hating everything about them because it isn’t going to fit like you thought it would. It’s a fact of life that you are just going to have to get around, but if you purchase an easier one to use for your first time, then you could get used to the way it fits and move your way up the ladder to something a bit more erotic after that.

I have had to work my way up to newer designs in fetish devices over the years as well even though I have purchased a few that were far out of my league. I would try them on and decide that I would need to go to something a bit easier to handle instead. I would take the more advanced devices and put them away until I thought I was ready to use them even though there were times when I was wrong and had to put them up yet again and wait a few more months before pulling them out.

Your fetish device is going to be something of a personal choice for you and you should take the time to research the ones that you are interested in. If you jump in without seeing what has to offer, then you will probably forget the thought of having a chastity fetish altogether. You need to take the time to make sure that you are willing to put your urges on hold and give yourself the ability to take control of your sex life in ways that you never thought you could do before. If you can do all of that, then you are ready to purchase your first Fetish chastity device from and start to enjoy a different aspect of your life.